The In Between
That in between phase of leaving your old identity and becoming a new version of yourself can be so confusing and uncomfortable. You’ve outgrown who you used to be but you haven’t fully stepped into who you’re becoming. You’re no longer aligned with your old ways and old identity. You might even grieve that old version of you because it’s familiar, kept you safe, and/or has gotten you through tough situations.
Your ready to move forward but another part of you is afraid to take that next step because of the unknown, you don’t know what changes it might bring. You might feel called toward something different but still working through the fear of taking those next steps. This it totally normal and nothing is wrong with you. It is apart of the human soul evolution. From experience, if you have resistance toward this new frequency/identity trying to come in, it’ll just keep coming up. Your higher self is just going to keep nudging you toward this new beginning. It’ll feel like a tug-of-war between the old version of you and the universe lol.
You don’t need to rush your transformation. Give yourself grace! But also, learn the difference between fear, resistance, and holding yourself back from all the great things the universe is trying to bring you. With all that being said, we’re learning to let go without having all the answers. So, the in between is a period of transition, not failure, even though it may feel that way. It’s an adjustment, a redirection. You becoming this new version is you choosing yourself. ✨
